Borrowed Time

A while back a friend of mine, Laura Hodges Poole, began her post by saying, “I did something this morning I can’t take credit for. I woke up.” (To read the full post click here.)

How often do we assume we will have another day?

The fact is, we are not promised our next heartbeat…and yet we live as if we will never die.

We put off telling someone how we feel.

We hold onto grudges.

We refuse to say ‘sorry’ until the other party goes first.

We leave tasks undone, words unsaid, and debts unpaid.

One day bleeds into another and we forget how fragile life is.

We ignore the reality that at any moment we could breathe our last.

There’s a Christian song by Jason Gray called, Good to be Alive.

Here’s the chorus:

                I want to live like there’s no tomorrow

    Love like I’m on borrowed time

   It’s good to be alive.

How would your life look if you truly believed these words?

How would you LOVE others if you thought you were living on borrowed time?

What would change in your day?

Who would you contact? What would you tell them?

What task would you make sure was completed?

Would you forgive someone over something that happened eons ago? Setting you both free from the pain you’ve been holding onto?

Would you pray for the person who cuts you off in traffic instead of flipping them off?

Would you pay for someone’s meal at a restaurant simply because you can and it would make them feel good?

Would give away something you’ve been holding onto (like an old car you don’t use) because you realize you can’t take it with you to the grave?

Would you get over your fears and tell people about Salvation through Christ because you know you won’t ever have another chance and you don’t want to risk their eternity?

What would you do differently if today was truly our last day on earth?

Bad Day at Work...we all have them no matter what our jobs are or how much we love them.

Before having kids I never thought of parenting as a “job”. 

I was wrong.

Being a parent is a 24/7, never ending, no holiday’s or PTO type job.

And I LOVE it…95% of the time.

The other 5% I want to pull my hair out. I feel overwhelmed, under-qualified, and completely at a loss as to what I should do.

But unlike a real “job”, I can’t quite.

I’m a mom for life!

And I LOVE that.

But as with all jobs, there are “Bad Days”.

Recently I experienced one of those 5% days when I’m stressed to the limit and not enjoying my job. 

I tried praying, but I couldn’t focus.

I felt drained, irritable, and in need of rejuvenation.

At the end of the day I was able to pray and read my Bible.

During that time God reminded me that thoughout my day I had a choice on how I would respond to my problems.

He reminded me that my focus determines my reality and I wasn’t focused on God or loving my boys. I was focused on ME. And my reality sucked because of it. 

God reminded me that SELFISHNESS is what kept me in my bad mood and ruined my day.

I began thinking about the job’s I had before becoming a stay at home mom.

I’d had bad days in those jobs too.

Day’s where I felt undervalued and overworked.

Day’s when I didn’t want to go in.

Day’s when I thought what I was doing was meaningless.

All those day’s had something in common with my current bad day: SELFISHNESS.

How I felt.

What I wanted.

Where I would rather be.

Who I felt was wrong (hint: it was rarely me)

Why I felt something wasn’t fair.

When I wanted a break.

ME. ME. ME.

Me. I am the cause of my bad days staying bad. 

My choices.

My attitude.

What I’m focused on. 

Yes, sometimes bad things happen that really suck and are out of my control.

But I don’t have to let circumstances dictate how my day goes.

Situations should not define my mood. 

Romans 13:9-14 NLT says, “…Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to others… Instead, clothe yourself with the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. And don’t let yourself think about ways to indulge your evil desires.”(emphasis mine)

When I’m busy loving others I don’t have time to focus on my environment or how I feel. 

When my focus is LOVE, my reality changes. My attitude changes. My thoughts change and I don’t have time to be self-centered. (click to tweet)

I have a CHOICE to love others through my words and my actions. 

I have a CHOICE on what I am going to focus on and how my day goes beyond a situation.

Yes, bad days happen…even if we LOVE our jobs.

But we don’t have to be stuck in our bad day.

When we are clothed with Christ (who is love) we don’t have time to think about indulging in our evil desires. 

But it’s a choice. 

A choice to be clothed in Christ.

And a choice to NOT think about self and to love others.

Remember: Love is patient, kind, never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.

Love is NOT jealous, boastful, proud, rude, irritable, demanding, or self-centered. Nor does it keep track of when it is wronged. (1 Cor 13)

I don’t know about you, but I need to work on my love.

I need to work on my choices.

When my day doesn’t go as I’d like, I need to remember to focus on God and not self.

Bad days will come, but they don’t have to stay.

It’s a choice.

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He Knows My Name!!!

Think about a famous person you really admire.

Someone you wish you knew.

Someone so totally awesome that you can’t imagine actually meeting them.

They seem so far above you.

So out of reach.

Untouchable.

And yet, you hold pronounced respect for them. 

You think they are GREAT!

Now imagine this famous person knows your name.

How exciting is that!?!

They know you!

Your heart is beating fast.

Sweat pops out on your forehead. 

Your palms are clammy and you’re so happy you might actually pee your pants (okay, maybe not pee your pants, but you get the picture).

This totally amazing person knows your name!

Out of the thousands of fans out there, this person knows YOU.

How cool is that?

Are you hyperventilating yet?

Now imagine this person says they want to be your best friend(BFF).

Did you just pass out?

Do you need a moment to collect yourself?

Awesome dream, right?

Life changing if that dream were to come true.

The person you “idolize” most wants to be your BFF!

Completely out of this world, unreal, and would be so amazing if it were true.

Okay, calm down. 

Time to focus.

I don’t know who your “famous” person is that sends your heart in overdrive, but I know someone famous who SHOULD send you reeling, because He does know your name.

If fact, He knows all about you and He adores you. He would say He’s a fan of yours.

Have you figured out who He is yet?

GOD.

He’s the most famous person ever…and He knows your name.

He wants a relationship with you.

To be your BFF.

The questions He has for you are:

Will you be His BFF?

Will you admire, respect, and idolize Him MORE than other famous people?

Will you stop what you’re doing just to interact with Him?

Will you listen to Him and memorize His Words?

Will you choose Him over every other thing that vies for your attention? 

Will you get as excited to spend time with Him as you would someone else who is less famous?

Does your heart sore at the thought of Him knowing your name?

Does He need to pick up you because your legs are too wobbly to stand in His presents?

Does He hold a candle to the dream you first envisioned when you began reading this post?

Does He take center stage in your life?

He wants to.

He wants to mean something to you…something more than just a passing acquaintance.

He wants to change your life and rock your world.

He’s worthy of your adoration and devotion. 

And you already have His.

Will you give Him yours?

Is He your dream come true?

This post was inspired by the song “He Knows My Name” by Francesca Battistelli.