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TC AVEY

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Interview: Erica McNeal on Self Publishing Christian Book


Recently I did a book review of Good Grief! by Erica McNeal. She is a self published author with an amazing testimony. Since a few of you are aspiring authors and/or have testimonies that need to be shared, I asked Erica to do an interview to help us get an idea of the publishing process. 
This is a different type of post for me. Hope you enjoy!

1.       What led to your decision to write and publish your book?
a.      Good Grief! was originally one chapter in my overall memoir. But, after receiving a growing number of emails from people asking how to respond in tragic situations, I decided to publish Good Grief! as an eBook on June 11, 2011. Within two weeks of publishing, I received 6 requests to speak to Women's, Church, and Military Leadership groups. Each group asked when the printed version was going to come out. I was dumbfounded; I never expected this reaction. So, I decided to turn this chapter-gone-eBook into a printed version, tripled the word count, and 6 months later I was holding my first copy in my hands.

2.      How did you decide to go with West Bow Publishing?

a.      I had developed relationships with a couple of people connected with Thomas Nelson Publishers. I trusted the brand, and as I talked over the project with a few different people, we all came to the same conclusion that self-publishing was likely the best option for Good Grief! because of the niche of the book. As I have learned more about traditional publishers and first time authors, I remain confident in my decision. What I didn’t realize about traditional publishers is that for most authors (especially those of us without a huge Platform - see Michael Hyatt’s book Platform), the publisher will help out with cover design, editing, getting your book into stores/online, and social media. But, I had assumed going with a traditional publisher would also mean receiving a publicist and a marketing team devoted to helping get my book out. In fact, to me this would be a main reason of going with a traditional publisher. However, the more I learn about traditional publishers, this does not seem to be the case unless you already have “celebrity” status. So, since I would still have to take on those responsibilities myself or hire someone to help, getting Good Grief! out quicker through self-publishing seemed the way to go (for me).

3.      Were there any parts of the book you were unsure/uncertain about writing, but you felt God telling you to share it anyway?
a.      There were some of the things people said that I really questioned whether or not to put into the book, based on the relationships I have with the people who said them. However, I wanted to be true to what we experienced, and how the words made us feel. When I began to learn how common even some of the most hurtful words spoken to our family are, I felt compelled to be as real and open as I could.

4.      Did you have any trepidation of publishing something so personal? If so, how did you overcome those emotions in order to follow God’s plan?
a.      Honestly, I didn’t, and I don’t know why. I am very open to anyone who asks about our story. In fact, sometimes I forget that our story is so dramatic, because to us, we do our best to live day to day and do not dwell or live in the hurt or medical drama. It’s not that I forget what we have been through, I just don’t think about it all compounded together until I share our whole story with others. I have become so passionate about helping people understand they are not alone, that the only way I can develop this rapport with others is to be real, and raw, and honest with the emotions. And, I believe the best way to help people understand why certain words and inactions are so hurtful is to explain these same emotions from the perspective of the hurting.

5.      What has been the most surprising aspect about this publishing journey?
a.      People often talked about how writing the book is only half of the work, marketing and getting the book into people’s hands is the other half. And, this is so true. Post-publishing has definitely been a lot more work than I anticipated.

6.      What advice do you have for aspiring authors?
a.      Michael Hyatt has an incredible eBook about Writing Winning Book Proposals, get a copy. Even though I self-published, this proposal helped me to organize Good Grief!, my thoughts, my outline, pinpoint exactly who my audience is, and the direction I wanted the book to go. Also, whichever publisher you go with, ask a lot of questions, find out what their expectations are of you, and talk about your expectations of them before you make any commitments.

7.      We all make mistakes, what was one mistake you learned from during the writing/publishing process that you care to share so hopefully aspiring authors don’t make the same mistake.
a.      There were times I was so excited about getting my proofs back that I began to read what I wanted to read, instead of what the text said. This led to me missing quite a few errors because I did not take enough time really digging into the proofs.

8.      What is your favorite Bible Scripture?
a.      For a long time my favorite verse has been Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” I talk about how I specifically break this verse down in Chapter 11 of Good Grief! when my circumstances begin to feel overwhelming.

Monday, July 9, 2012

The Cost of Discipleship Chapter 3


When called to follow Christ (or serve in some capacity) many obstacles stand in our way:  

Reason/Logic
Conscience
Responsibilities
Piety
Law
“Scriptural Authority”

But we are not asked to use anything other than faith to answer the call.

When the rich young ruler was called to accept a life of poverty he faced the choice of obedience or disobedience.

Levi and Peter faced similar choices- in each case they had to decide to “rely on Christ’s word, and cling to it as offering greater security than all the securities in the world.” 

Today, we must make that same decision when faced with the choice to obey.

When Christ calls us to do something we shouldn’t use reason, logic, justifications or excuses. We shouldn’t try to turn a black and white issue into shades of grey in order to make the call more comfortable or acceptable. 

We shouldn’t argue with ourselves like this:

“Jesus may have said: “Sell thy goods,” but he meant: “Do not let it be a matter of consequence to you that you have outward prosperity; rather keep your goods quietly, having them as if you had them not. Let not your heart be in your goods.”—We are excusing ourselves from single-minded obedience to the word of Jesus on the pretext of legalism and a supposed preference for obedience “In faith.” The difference between ourselves and the rich young man is that he was not allowed to solace his regret by saying: “Never mind what Jesus says, I can still hold on to my riches, but in a spirit of inner detachment. Despite my inadequacy I can take comfort in the thought that God has forgiven me my sins and can have fellowship with Christ in faith.” But no, he went away sorrowful. Because he would not obey, he could not believe.”  

Bonhoeffer points out this young man knew the scriptures. He’d probably tried a thousand times to let go of his riches and failed. He could not have that ‘inner detachment’. Some of us can. This is not about giving away all your money to follow Christ, this is about God knowing what area of our lives we hold back and Him asking us to let go in order to have greater fellowship with Him.

Bonhoeffer points out other area’s we use justifications to excuse our disobedience.

“If Jesus challenged us with the command: “Get out of it,” we should take him to mean: “Stay where you are but cultivate that inward detachment.” Again, if he were to say to us: “Be not anxious,” we should take him to mean: “Of course it is not wrong for us to be anxious; we must work and provide for ourselves and our dependents.  If we did not we should be shirking our responsibilities.  But all the time we ought to be inwardly free from all anxiety.”

Why do we do this?

We expect our children to obey us entirely- to not make excuses for why they didn’t do as they were instructed. Why should we not give our Heavenly Father the same respect?

Employers expect workers to follow orders as directed, to not deviate from them. Why should our Great Commander not expect the same obedience?

“When orders are issued in other spheres of life there is no doubt whatever of their meaning.”

Jesus has our best in mind. He knows what we need better than we do- why not obey? Why do we feel the need to control the relationship?

“The step into the situation where faith is possible is not an offer which we can make to Jesus, but always his gracious offer to us.”

We all have areas we like to hold onto, Jesus knows this. He isn’t trying to take something away; He is trying to give something greater!

If we use scripture to justify our disobedience we are still being disobedient and placing ourselves under the law.

“[F]or in Jesus the law is at once fulfilled and cancelled…the whole Word of the Scriptures summons us to follow Jesus.  We must not do violence to the Scriptures by interpreting them in terms of an abstract principle, even if that principle be a doctrine of grace. Otherwise we shall end up in legalism.”

God knows what areas we need to let go of. It will not be easy, which is why He asks us to let them go and trust Him.

“Obedience to the call of Jesus never lies within our own power.”

Questions:

1.        Is there something God is asking you to let go of? What’s stopping you?
2.       Have you ever found yourself justifying or rationalizing why you are not following exactly what God has called you to do?
3.       Are you like me and sometimes aren’t sure if God is asking you to do something? If so, how do you handle that situation? What do you do?
4.       If obedience is not within our own power, is that an excuse to not obey or a motive to allow Christ to work in you and through you?

Monday, July 2, 2012

Are You Committed to Freedom?


Freedom is not free.

It comes at a price.

Jesus paid the price for our freedom from sin and death.

Countless people paid the price for the freedom we enjoy in America.
Diedrich Bonhoeffer paid the price for both his country and his God. 


In honor of our Nation’s Birth, today I set aside the series “The Cost of Discipleship” by Bonhoeffer to ask you, 

What price are you paying?

To maintain freedom, it continues to cost (the only thing paid in full is our salvation, everything else we must work to preserve).

Freedom of speech costs.

Freedom of religion costs.

Freedom from tyranny costs.

Freedom to be individuals costs.

Our founders knew that.

“with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor.” Declaration of Independence 1776 (emphasis mine).

Pledging our lives, fortunes and sacred honor.  

Our founders were not super heroes. They were ordinary people doing extraordinary things. 


They didn’t casually sign their names. It was a commitment to care for an idea from conception to birth. It was a commitment to die instead of living in tyranny. It was a commitment to trust God. It was a commitment to themselves and to future generations. 

Today, our liberties are eroding as our Government grows. To have both is an oxymoron.
So what are you willing to pay to preserve our freedom?

How about your comfort? Branching out of your comfort zone and talking to those who may disagree with you.

How about your pride? Laying aside pride to stand next to someone you normally wouldn’t in order to fight for the things we do have in common.

How about your leisure time? Devoting time to educate yourself and those around you about history and current events- going beyond the media and doing homework.

How about your money? Taking your spending money and placing it into something more eternal than a movie, new clothes, vacations, etc.

How about your prayer life? Taking time to pray for our nation and leaders as we ask God what He wants us to DO! (What’s our part? Faith + Actions)

How about taking time to verify you and your loved ones are registered to vote? If you have never actually voted there is a chance you THINK you are registered and really are not-14% of American’s are under the assumption they are registered. Find out- http://www.wallbuilders.com/vote/

Freedom comes at a price.

What price are you paying?

In 1963 Martin Luther King Jr. asked people to sign a commitment card. He didn’t do this to get people in trouble or to bolster his own ego. He did it because something happens when we formally sign our names to a document. It makes us take ownership of our part in an agreement.

In America, we agree as citizen to elect officials to represent us and to follow their laws. 

In America, elected officials agree to serve the people- not their own agenda’s.

In America, when the people disagree with those officials, the people have the responsibility to vote those officials out of office.

In America, we have that agreement with our government.

Sadly many of us have forgotten this agreement (Declaration of Independence and Constitution of the US).

So today I ask that you actively engage.

Commit to defend our freedom.

While I don’t have a card or document to sign, you can still pledge within yourself to do all God directs in order for our nation to be “One Nation Under God.” (You can connect with others who are joining together to secure our freedom here.) 

Freedom costs.

Are you willing to pay?

For more information on our founders and the active roles they played in birthing our nation, check out: http://www.wallbuilders.com/libissuesarticles.asp?id=100

Happy Birthday America! I pray for 100 more years of freedom! I am committed to that freedom.
Are you?

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