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Sincerely,
TC AVEY

Monday, June 19, 2017

How Others Built - Building a Framework of Hope: Part 10



I love History.

Therefore, in the next few posts we will explore how others endured great hardships in order to help us Build our own Framework of Hope so we too can come through the fire with something worth passing on to those who come behind us.

The things I’m going to share have come from the following books:

4.       Night by Elie Wiesel

The people in these books did not one day decide they were going to be heroes—in fact, they didn’t even view themselves as heroes.

They didn’t go into the midst of Nazi Germany thinking they were going to change the world. And they didn’t sign up to be Role Models for countless individuals in the years following their bravery.

NO, they simply did what they had always done.

They lived a life of character DESPITE the circumstances they found themselves in.

You see, the decisions you make today, how you face trials now, and the things you build your life around, ALL play a factor in WHO you will become and HOW you will respond to catastrophes.

How you live your life RIGHT NOW helps determine if you will be able to “rise to the occasion” when, and if, your world collapses. 

At one point or another, all these people were faced the ultimate question (besides Salvation):

What’s my purpose in life?

Everything was taken from them.

They lost their jobs, homes, possessions…even their family. 

They had no status. No freedoms. Limited choices.

What motivated them to endure?

Why didn’t they give up, run away, or stick their heads in the sand? 

Some were driven by the need to survive for their loved ones—they maintained the hope that they would see them again. Or they felt compelled to resist the evil around them and wanted to tell the world the truth.

Others found their purpose in God—being an encouragement to others, shining His light, exemplifying His love. 

All felt the pressure to give up. 

None of them WANTED to go through the holocaust.

But they realized bemoaning the circumstances wouldn’t help. 

They had a choice.

And they chose to live above their situation.

They fixed their FOCUS on something greater than themselves, their possessions, and their environment. 

I look forward to sharing with you some of the things these brave individuals have taught me. I pray you will join me as we look back in time in order to build up our own HOPE that can endure anything.

Your Turn:

Do you have any heroes that inspire you?
Who's your role model and what has he/she taught you?  








Monday, May 22, 2017

Finding Joy in the Pain - Building a Frameword of Hope: Part 9



In Part 7, we explored HOW our response to tough times (and even our victories) illustrates our level of trust in God. 

Throughout Scripture, God tells us that trials are to our benefit…and yet so often we try to avoid them, or rush through them, with little thought of how they can benefit us.

 If in the midst of a trial our only questions are “why” or “how long will it last” we will miss the lessons.

Instead, we must train ourselves to find the value in the storm, the lessons to be learned. 

We should be asking, “God, what do you want me to learn?”

If our focus in solely on the pain we are in, and how to get out of it, we will miss God. We will miss the JOY He brings and the HOPE we have been promised.

Have you ever the phrase, FOCUS DETERMINES REALITY?

If you are focused only on the circumstance, or the pain you are experiencing, your reality is limited to that. You will miss God. You will miss the blessings. You will miss the lesson.

If your focus is on YOU and YOUR abilities, you will miss God in action. 

Shifting our focus from self, and our circumstances, is not easy. 

But when our focus is on “SELF”, we are unable to see God. We are unable to TRUST God. And our HOPE is limited to what SELF can do. Instead of all that God can do.

When our focus is off God, we start to doubt Him.

Is God really good?

Does God really love me?

Is there a God? If so, why is He allowing this?

When my dad died I began to doubt God. Not because of his death, but because of the suffering he endured before dying. I began asking if God is truly loving. These doubts led to great anger with God. 

In the end, they also brought a closer relationship.

You see, God is big enough to handle our doubts, fears, anger and questions.

The KEY is to bring them TO God. 

God is a great teacher. 

Bring Him your questions.

Bring Him your doubts.

Bring Him your frustrations.

GO TOWARD GOD.

Don’t let trials drive a wedge in your relationship with Him.

You see, when I brought my concerns TO God, He changed my focus. 

I started out focused on me and my feelings. But in coming TO God with this, He changed my focus

That shift in focus, changed my entire perception of the trial.

Before I knew it, my doubts were gone.

My anger had melted. 

My relationship with Him was stronger…as was my faith.


I grew in that trial.
You can grow too if you stop relying on self to get you through. If you stop focusing exclusively on the circumstances. If you turn TOWARD God.

A slight shift in focus can go a long way in helping you through the storm.

Suddenly enduring doesn’t seem so bad. Hope springs new. And peace that transcends understanding takes root.

I pray you’re starting to realize the challenges you face in life are not meant to defeat you, God allows them FOR your good (and so you can help others).

Refection Questions:
1.       In the middle of a trial, what are you focused on? Is that drawing you closer to God or pushing you farther from Him?
2.       How can shifting your Focus change your Reality?
3.       Next time you’re in a trial ask yourself: What does God have to say about this storm? What is He trying to teach me?






Monday, May 8, 2017

Do I Believe the Bible? - Building a Framework of Hope Part: 8



I was hit by a 2x4 the other day.

(not literally…but it still felt that way)

I was listening to a sermon by Francis Chan and I felt God ask me, “Do you believe my Word is true?”

My automatic reply was, “Of course!”

But I paused.

If I truly believed His Word is the final authority on EVERYTHING, why did I doubt Him?

What Chan said really drove this point home.

 Paraphrasing Chan, he said that if anything he believes doesn’t line up with the Bible, that he automatically assumes he is wrong—not the Bible. 

Ouch.

I’m guilty of looking for Scripture to align with what I already believe to be truth. And if I find something I don’t like, I sort of ignore it. (Did I just admit to ignoring parts of the Bible?) 

Yes, yes I did.

The Bible tells me to forgive 70x7. I want to hold onto my hurt and justify it by saying I’ve already forgiven that many times. I want to write that person off. I don’t want to be hurt again.

The Bible says to love our enemies. But what does that really mean? Can’t I avoid them? Maybe pray for them? Do I have to LOVE them (1 Cor 13 type love: patient, kind, long suffering, etc.)?

You see, if I truly believed God’s Word is truth—that His Word is Final—then my life style, thought patterns, and decisions would change.
 
As long as I view His Word as negotiable, I won’t grow in my walk. 

Yes, we will all mess up. That’s what 1 John 1:9 is all about, but overall I need to decide if I really believe the Bible to be absolute truth…even when I don’t understand some of the things it says… even when I don’t like some of the things it instructs me to do…even if it contradicts things I thought to be factual.

You’re turn:

Is the Bible True? 

If it is, how does this dictate your life?

We’ve been talking about Building a Framework of Hope: Are you building using God’s TRUE blueprint (BIBLE)…or your own version of religion?

Are you open to hearing God’s Word even if it’s something you don’t want to hear?