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Monday, February 13, 2017

Building a Framework of Hope: Part 3



Hopefully you’ve had a chance to figure out where you are RIGHT now in your relationship with Christ.

Are you hot or cold? 

Or worse…Luke Warm? (I like to use the term “Indifferent”—see what God has to say about this type of Christian in Rev 3:16)

Honestly, it doesn’t really matter where you are. 

God will meet you there. 

Therefore, wherever you are, that’s where you will begin.

Before we go any further, we need to look at 1 John 1:9:

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just
and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

Perhaps right now you need to pause and talk with God about where you are RIGHT now. Maybe you need to spend time confessing and accepting His unfailing forgiveness before you go any further.

If you don’t need to do this…just hold on—by the end of this post you will need to refer back to this Scripture.

EVALUATING OUR HEARTS DESIRES

In this portion we are going to discover what drives you. What has meaning in your life? What are you building your life around? 

Ask yourself:  What would completely devastate me if it was taken away?

For years my career defined me. I had little value in myself outside of that. When I became a Stay-at-Home mom I suffered an identity crisis. Who was I? How did the world view me? How did I view myself? Did I have worth?
 
Fast forward in time… After accepting my new role, I realized my biggest fear was losing my family. I loved my kids so much that I wanted to put them in a bubble to protect them. God reminded me that the things (or people) I worry about the most, are the things I’m trusting Him with the least.

But how to trust Him? What was holding me back from relying on Him?

I wasn’t sure. So I sought God more and He revealed that a great deal of my sense of security was in my husband’s job, our bank account, and possessions. I thought those things kept us “Safe” in case bad things occurred. When really it’s only God who can keep us safe.

What about you?

What defines who you are?

What’s your biggest fear?

What do you place your security in?

Finally, what happens if all these things are taken from you?

Can you survive… or will you curl up in a fetal position?

THIS IS WHY you need to build a Framework of Hope…so that if your worst case scenario happens, you can keep going.

You can’t go backward, and you can’t stay where you are. 

You must move forward. 

Do you have what it takes to be able to do this? 

While no one knows for sure how they will react when tragedy strikes, those who have a solid relationship with God have a hope that defies reality.

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?
Shall trouble or hardship or persecution
or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? …
No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.
For I am convinced that neither death nor life,
neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future,
nor any powers, neither height nor depth,
nor anything else in all creation,
will be able to separate us from the love of God
 that is IN Christ Jesus our Lord.”
Romans 8:35-39 NIV (emphasis mine)

I challenge you to review my last post in light of this one and take time to evaluate not only your relationship with God (you know, how important He is to you in your daily life) but also to assess what truly matters to you.

What are you building your life upon and around? 
What would truly shake your belief in God? 

Please keep 1 John 1:9 in mind as you do this. Continual Repentance is key in building upon the Foundation Christ laid for you.







Monday, January 30, 2017

Building a Foundation of Hope: Part 2



The next few posts will be uncomfortable. 

I want us to have a clean foundation to build upon and that means stripping off the old and ugly truths we’ve allowed ourselves to believe. It means exposing the things we would rather not acknowledge... even to ourselves.
We're doing this because we don’t want to “gloss over” the cracks we’ve created in our foundation. This would cause our framework to be weak. We want to firmly fix our framework upon the solid foundation Christ so generously gave us at Calvary.

So let’s dig in and get dirty!

First, let’s begin with assessing where we are RIGHT now in our walk with Christ. 

Not where we want to be.

Not where we were five years ago…or even yesterday.

Where are you RIGHT now?

Is your faith strong or wavering?

Are your doubts holding you back from God or pushing you toward Him?

Do you dread going to church, reading your Bible and praying or are you exciting to spend more time with God?

Would others classify you as a mature Christian or does your lifestyle make people wonder if you’re even a follower of Christ?

How would God classify your relationship with Him? Would He be happy with the amount of time you spend with Him or sad that He is far down on your list of priorities?

Do you struggle with “faith verses works”? Do you feel like you’re never enough and wonder how other Christians seem to have it all “figured out”? 

Or is pride a plank blocking your vision? Do you think you’re better than other Christians because you have more Scripture memorized, you attend church more, you volunteer, tithe, etc.?

Where are you RIGHT now in your maturity as a Christian?

Spiritual Growth is like Exercise. 

You have to start with where you are and move forward.

When I started Taekwondo I had to be honest with myself. I was “skinny”, but out of shape. 

It was hard seeing people who LOOKED less in shape be able to do more. 

But I had to start with where I was. Not where I wanted to be or even where I looked like I belonged.

When I began I could only do 5 “real” pushups (not the girlie ones), 8 months later I’m able to do 50 “real” pushups without stopping.

Getting to this point took pain. 

My muscles ached. They protested as I pushed beyond my limit. 

But I kept going. I persevered. And I will keep persevering until I reach my goal of 100.

This process taught me that I can’t jump ahead in my physical capabilities.  Likewise, I can’t jump ahead in my spiritual ones either.

To mature in Christ, I must do the work and I must start at with where I am RIGHT NOW.

You must do the same with where you are in your walk with Christ.

If you’re having trouble, ask God to help you be honest with yourself. 

Ask Him to show you areas you need improvement—because we ALL need improvement. None of us are there yet. 

So until next time, I challenge you to get honest with yourself.

Find out where you are RIGHT now.

Once that’s established we can move on to the next uncomfortable step: Evaluating our hearts desires.

“"Ask and it will be given to you;
seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.”






Monday, January 2, 2017

Building a Framework of Hope Part 1



Therefore let us move beyond the elementary teachings about Christ
and be taken forward to maturity…” Heb 6:1 NIV

For Christians, deciding to follow Christ—AKA being “saved”—,is the FIRST STEP in a life-long process of maturing into the likeness of Christ.

But some treat salvation as the LAST STEP. They never grow past being a “babe in Christ”. 

Other Christians move forward only to stall out at some point along their journey. 

Neither is how God intended the Christian life to be.

He calls us to mature:  Just like an infant is to become a child, grow into a teenager and then mature into an adult.  

But growth and development don’t end with being an adult. 

Even adults continue to move forward and age. 

They go from young adulthood, to middle aged, and finally into their “golden years”. 

If at any point along this natural progression a person stops developing, there is a problem that must be addressed.

This same principle applies to our Spiritual growth.

God does not call us into Salvation simply for us to “get out of hell”.

He does not like a Luke Warm follower—one who is satisfied with the “status quo” or who treats Christianity as a “to-do” list.

God calls us into a LIFE LONG journey with Him. A relationship.

Sadly, many Christians don’t have a clue about how to mature in Christ. Some even think going to church makes them mature—and it is a good start.

But there is more. So much more.

So how do we build upon the foundation of our Salvation?

In the coming weeks I want to help you mature by building a framework of hope upon that foundation. It is my prayer that this series will inspire you to move beyond where you currently are in Christ and into a deeper, fuller experience with Him. One that will help you withstand the storms of life. 

“Suppose one of you wants to build a tower.
Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost
to see if you have enough money to complete it?
For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it,
everyone who sees it will ridicule you,Luke 14:28-29 NIV

You’re saved.

You have the foundation.

Will you join me in building upon it?

For further Bible Verses regarding Maturing in Christ click here.

If you’re not a Christian, or are uncertain, and want more information about becoming a follower of Christ please visit my blog post about Salvation.

I look forward to sharing this journey with you.